Weight Loss Surgery & Relationships

Posted on 09/05/2012 by admin


So I am a very big believer that relationship go through a dramatic change once we lose the weight. This time around, I get into my own personal life & explain what I had to go through as im sure others are facing as well. All I ever wanted was to be touched more, to be admired, to be loved, to have that wow factor… Maybe a few you look so beautiful, you look so sexy, or just a slight stare in disbelief that im his wife. If I had those types of reactions outdoors, why could I not get it at home. This is what made the marriage go for a loop. I felt unwanted and when I needed the most attention because of my big accomplishment, I did not get it. After seeking marriage counciling and pouring my heart out, things have change and he now has those qualities that I was looking for. It took almost a year to change his way of being. Some relationships get stronger while others fall apart. The choice lies btwn how much 2 people love each other.

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    25 Responses to Weight Loss Surgery & Relationships

    1. MiChiLove says:
      02/02/2011 at 09:03

      I could not even teach my daughter how to do their bike because I could not get up and down the stairs with it & I certainly do not run after her until she lost her balance. I decided that the best f his decision? R us both and I went through gl? Glad the new me!

    2. MiChiLove says:
      02/02/2011 at 09:13

      I walked the same experience some years ago thought with my weight loss. My boyfriend of 3 years, me (w? While I was @ work, no less) with gr? Eren woman he will be met on the Internet. He said that I was no longer the woman he fell in love, because he was among the gr eren I was dressed -? Me the 300 + lbs. I realized that independent? REGARDLESS of how he f? Sample, it was always for a problem? R me. My knees were deteriorating and I could hardly breathe for some days.

    3. copnite12342 says:
      02/02/2011 at 09:49

      one? about the guy not want to cause M? girl she was too skinny to be? this is the gr? te divorce? e, rt I ever go?. M guys want? girls look like models, and yet who they want, they are nn wie”nein to ur d?. . . ”Everyone got a knife? someone loses a penis. . . . lol!

    4. NuMe4ya says:
      02/02/2011 at 10:37

      I showed my mom this video and ore? Sample me to take what you said to heart. She said that in the one to change? Because my husband is going very heavy. Im so glad you posted this video. I didn’t realize that every aspect of my life? Can change k?. Wow.

    5. skymoon1982 says:
      02/02/2011 at 11:32

      Thx Hoffa3381 @ f? R comment. I can talk to go? About so many things when it comes to WLS and relationships. In hopoing that f works? R both of you. There are many consumers? Changes. :-)

    6. skymoon1982 says:
      02/02/2011 at 12:01

      @ NuMe4ya Im glad that your husband is very bottom? Flushed? About your decision. You are blessed.

    7. NuMe4ya says:
      02/02/2011 at 12:38

      My husband and I are both chubby chasers. Thank you? R posting this. I just had a debate is? Over with my husband. He said it wouldnt be a problem with it. He said he f excited? For me and will be on his own, non-surgical journey with me. In the blessed, I think. I will f please r and pray your husband.

    8. Hoffa3381 says:
      02/02/2011 at 12:49

      Your a beautiful a wife! Sometimes m? We need to f things? R us that our loved ones is not easy to understand. I am a month and have noticed one? Change my wife’s attitude distances. We have come together since high school (20 years) and I was always? About 235pds. So it comes f? R both sexes. Thank you? Advise the exchange & the r! Smile;)

    9. MsChargerFan says:
      02/02/2011 at 13:47

      This topic! Is big-like! mel as always, you nailed the issue. Im sure many of us have to learn Hush Hush.

    10. x8rdee3 says:
      02/02/2011 at 14:27

      Wow – Great Vid. Skymoon. I will f? R pray you develop.

    11. marolkisan says:
      02/02/2011 at 15:05

      If he only a friend and he does not “like” them more – then dump him and move on. There are many people outdoors? S is the new love. And you too!

    12. malijahdc3 says:
      02/02/2011 at 15:40

      Hi Mel, This is Melissa. I’m really glad you are saying? Calcd It is a big concern there f? R me. My husband (f? R a fact) loves big e women. I have my first consult lapband to 1 September. I spoke with my husband? About my concerns of him as no longer attracted to me. He said it will not be a problem. I will believe him, but we know each other since we were 16 (I’m 31 now) and although I? Mountains wasn’t important when we met I was always at least fat. I have to lose 150 to! The k nnte? Make a difference, I’m!

    13. Minniemousejan2010 says:
      02/02/2011 at 15:54

      You look so much better D? Men! (Not that looks should really at the end of the day matter because it was on the inside that is I a reward.) IMHO, it is not necessarily just the weight loss that the partner object, it is also the new lifestyle and new-found confidence of the leaner, they refuse because they are so their wives will be used at home and doting on them because of lack of confidence in going out and socializing, it will be a real shock when their wives build a new life au? OUTSIDE of the house

    14. mssmiley85 says:
      02/02/2011 at 15:55

      Wow was she out of line to say they see another man in your life. I am a seer, all of us some seers and I see u gl? Glad now with your life, u L? Smiling with eyes like Tyra Banks say we should all be overcome and u have a lot of pain and fear?, And I see u gl? Glad. So continue to gl? Glad to be and continue as my inspiration. Love ya mami.

    15. Mrsshortd says:
      02/02/2011 at 16:00

      Michelle initially grows here? see wonderful. Melanie your trip was and severities can be thought of as some. I recommend f? R saving your marriage, but a fluffy donkey with melon size? E tatas will not keep you long enough to see your h? Bschen grow up son and a man on his own. Do not get me wrong! It is beautiful n, this Verm? Assets, but your health and Pr essences? In this world, how to have it. Melanie do not give up. Keep bl? How ht beautiful n Red Rose!

    16. Ireonl says:
      02/02/2011 at 16:03

      Glad you posted because I’m 20 pounds from goal and have since been comments from my husband and others (some of them have ambition? Mighty) decline but you have inspired me to f? Go r target because Weight loss is personalized Personal

    17. HalloweenieLins says:
      02/02/2011 at 16:15

      mel. . You are beautiful n. I am 5 months after the surgery and I have only one K? Rbchengr? E lost. But, my husband and I are with issues in this way. glad to know I am not alone.

    18. october11th says:
      02/02/2011 at 17:04

      @ Skymoon1982 Thanks be valid for your reply. I think it varies from person to person. Perhaps after the surgery and causes rapid weight loss, that loss of this Verm? Assets to. You look great in M? Girl thank f? R the videos!

    19. skymoon1982 says:
      02/02/2011 at 17:07

      @ October11th I dont agree. I come from a family that big e Verm? Gene (Tits & Ass) added. Some of them so d? Nn as I am now and they have big e Br ste?. I just think w? During the whole? Advertising and the loss of weight, you will tend to lose it, no matter what.

    20. skymoon1982 says:
      02/02/2011 at 18:07

      @ ElizaYah Trust me, there is no other man in my life, in all honesty. I have no time to fool. I go straight home after I get out of work, for my family. Never cheated or paid to other M? Nnern w? During my trip.

    21. ElizaYah says:
      02/02/2011 at 18:23

      As a seer, sp? I re another man in your life. You will end gl? Glad.

    22. october11th says:
      02/02/2011 at 18:56

      I think if, when the weight you lose your Bruges losing coast and butt because you never really had big e Br Residents and a spacious en f, but? R the beginning. Meaning, the overweight before his?. Everything is green? It if you win, but if you lose it, it goes to? Win ck what it was before. That’s how it is with me and I know others anyway.

    23. crewlla says:
      02/02/2011 at 19:49

      Msclarita64 @ k? Nnte it go the other way. some M? men as some of the cubby always so excited seing the lean.

    24. crewlla says:
      02/02/2011 at 20:07

      I’m glad you made this video. I go rt? That this happens. I am glad you are trying to work out things. But currently staying together you only for the children. My parents, we have seen that and it k? Fight all the time its not worth it. (From the perspective of a child) Well, what do you do when they upset? Berf get over and start your weight loss? Rsorglich. My husband is w? Tend, when I go to look pretty cause other guys stare at me. He likes the weight loss more than I do.

    25. thebandedbran says:
      02/02/2011 at 20:58

      Thank you? R the contribution formula. I wonder if the same thing will happen to me and my husband. My husband is also thicker in women. He has always said that he no d girls? Rren M? Girl as attractive as thick M?. I hope that nothing? Changed in the future. As of now he is very bottom? Flushed and encouraging me? 40 weight loss so far and I hope it does not change?. I try to eat it and? Tender with me. Hopefully, if he d nn? He’s not such a problem with me.

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